The source of quarrels

Quarrels derive from hatred and vengeance. The feelings of hatred builds up in a persons mind when he/she is either jealous or unsatisfied with the other's speech , doings or any matter which leads to unsatisfactness. These feeling build up in their minds until the day it bust up. It is just like clouds gather water until it cannot hold and then meets another cloud of the same nature and bust up resulting in lightnings, thunderstorms and rain following floods and destroys anything that comes along.

Although the damage has been done in a temporary period which we classify as temporary state of mind, the feelings still remains because of our weakness, that is our ego and ignorance of life. Most of us live this material life the way we were brought up and hope to achieve our visions in any way we can. We are not bothered to know what is life and how we should lead this life which we attained.

This planet Earth and it's habitats are an example of how life is about. Mother nature is also a very good example of our behavior. To be happy and to continue this karma tic life of us until we leave to another dimension, we must make an effort to discover the source of our problems, identify the problem, rectify the problem and lastly avoid such problems in future. Though it is easily said, it can also be easily done if we make an effort.